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Safe spaces and identity

I struggled for a very, very long time with my identity, as referenced in my last post. Once I discovered asexuality, I had serious thoughts that ‘this could be me.’ But it couldn’t, could it? After all, I enjoyed sex. … Continue reading

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Identity–it’s more than behaviour and more than words

Once upon a time, I was a lesbian. Once upon a time, I was a bisexual. Once upon a time, I was a pansexual. Once upon a time, I was a girl. Once upon a time, I was a boy. … Continue reading

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Pinpointing the colour red-an examination of different types of sex

I was reading a story, Sherlock (BBC, 2010) fanfiction.  I hate Sherlock as a sexual being, so when I came across a sex scene in the story, which came highly recommended to me, I was very, very disappointed.  I was … Continue reading

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What am I even doing entering the blogosphere?

I lack an invisible elephant.  At least, if I have one, I have never seen it.  That invisible elephant is called sexual attraction.  I do not experience sexual attraction to others.  To the best of my knowledge, I never have.  … Continue reading

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